Throughout my seventeen years of life, the most difficult thing that I have coped with mentally and emotionally is my parent's divorce. Everyday I think to myself “how can my life go from perfect to a disaster in such a short amount of time”. In my imagination we had the perfect family. My dad is a police officer, my mom was a teacher, we lived in a big house with a pool, and two dogs. What more could my siblings and I ask for? “When you take things for granted, the things you are granted gets taken” is a quote that began to play a substantial part in my life. Never would I have ever thought my family would be cleaved apart. The separation brought me problems emotionally, financially, and also socially. Furthermore, around the time of me finding out my parents were divorcing, I was informed the amazing news of me becoming captain of the Selma High School Cheerleading Squad. Of course I was ecstatic, I attained one of my many achievements in life. In my perspective I was the greatest captain I could have ever been, I produced cheers, dances, and etc., did them on time, and also I created a bond between a group of girls that could never be destroyed. Unfortunately, dealing with responsibilities as captain and also going through things at home was a bit overwhelming. I came to practices and performances with …show more content…
Looking back over all the things I have done I can truly say that I am a strong person. Above all, I was able to control my emotions on my own. I was able to get through the financial predicament and countinue to cheer. Lastly, I was able to build my social group back up and make up the times I missed with my friends. In essence, this situation didn’t break me it just made me stronger. I kept faith in God, and faith without work is dead. I started speaking things into existence and I have been living in my best
At times, I might seem quiet, or not the best cheerleader out there, etc, but I am really trying hard behind the scenes to become a better cheerleader and finding ways to help make our team wonderful. Being not only a cheerleader, but a captain means way more than sidelines, ball games, sporting events, pep-rally’s and leading your team. It’s how you appear to the community and how you are as a student and person. You want someone smart, responsible, and dedicated to be the very best person they can be. How you appear outside of cheer represents your team and your school.
When it comes to leadership, there is one thing that I am very proud of. As a senior team captain and unquestioned leader I had a massive task on my hands this year. Coming off of a winless season the football team was lacking commitment and and there were many questions about how the teams was going to bounce
I know it is a lot of responsibility but I think I have the skills and leadership to take those responsibilities on. A captain needs to be enthusiastic, helpful, patient, but also a leader that will take charge, when needed. I feel I can and will meet these requirements, if chosen. As captain I would also take any and all opinions into mind before I make any decisions,
But I couldn’t just give up ! I had a strong bond with my teammates. Plus I loved performing because it gave me a rush of excitement and adrenaline throughout my body. Being on this team has taught me that I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to and that I can be a leader. Whenever the captain and co-captain were not able to make it to practice I was the
Being a captain in soccer whether it's professional soccer or high school soccer is an honor to be. Professional players such as Andres Iniesta, Carles Puyol, Sergio Ramos, and the player that inspired me to play soccer Paolo Maldini have all shown why being a captain is such an honor to be. Now I have been given the honor to be varsity captain for My high school soccer team but I wasn't just given to me because I was a senior no, it was given to me because of my hard work and dedication to become a better soccer player and to become a leader. Freshman year was a big learning process for me.
It is hard growing up with no parents and family to fall back on. Although many of us don’t realize it, not all of us have the perfect family life. Some people are not fortunate enough to grow up with one set of two loving parents, and that can lead to deeper issues and problems than we suspect. Some do have families but deal with a bad home life. We often take family for granted and don’t realize how lucky we are to come home to a supportive family.
Being cheer captain is a very important job not only is it important, but it comes with many responsibilities. Cheerleading itself is a very special privilege that people all around the world get to have the opportunity to do. Making the cheer team is one of the most exciting times of one’s life but becoming captain would be once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that would be a pleasure of anyone. Becoming cheer captain would give me the opportunity to be a good image to the squad, showcase my leadership abilities, and motivate my squad to spread spirit all throughout the school. When I think of a cheer captain I think of someone who gets along with every member of the team and is well liked by every last person on the team to include the coaches.
Now that I am older, I understand the hard work my parents do in order to make ends meet. Through my experience, I have become a resilient individual. I have gained many experiences that have taught me the qualities of being determined and unafraid. When I reflect on myself about my journey to a good education, I focus on the sacrifices my family
Lastly, I have also been a captain and called cheers last year during basketball season. What is your understanding of what makes a captain successful? If you are selected, how are you going to achieve that this season?
In addition to being the leader of the club, I was also a role model. The youngest on the team looked up to me most. With my new outlook as captain, I was intent on guiding my teammates to success. The joy they felt after placing in a race was only surpassed by my pride for them. As their faces lit up with each win, I saw a reflection of myself in them:
However, it begins with the same way I ended theirs – never judge a book by its cover. I was five years old and was still recovering from my parents’ divorce. My father had moved out and it was just my mother, two brothers, and I. As a huge daddy’s girl, I was pretty devastated. Even though my parents’ handled it to the best of their abilities, there is nothing easy about a huge life transition at such a developmental age.
Last year I became captain on the Soccer Varsity team of my high school. Being captain isn’t just being the head of all the girls, but is doing the best for the team. My goal was to work as a team in and outside the field, and working together to win and have fun. But my conflicts with certain girls were getting in the way, because how can I expect them to do a certain thing if I’m not setting an example. I chose to talk to those girls, set things straight and set an example to my teammates.
Most transformative moments in life can be caused by the smallest of occurrences in life. Often people do not even realize that a pivotal moment in their life is happening. Someone may realize when they are mature enough that there was one special moment during their childhood that ultimately determined their lifelong goal. For others, they probably realized an “aha” moment right when it happened and from then on decided that they knew what they want to accomplish later on. I actually have taken from both sides of the spectrum from realizing that one special transformative moment but also not even knowing that it would end up steering me towards my current career choice.
Looking at my mom and dad’s situation from a Gladwellian lens showed me that hard work is exactly what I needed to achieve my goal in attending college and to become a better track and field
In one person’s life, there can be many changes. Some of them are small and do not have a very big effect on your life. However, other events are very important and can completely change a person’s life, such as moving to a new country, joining the military, getting married, or buying a house. Two of the events that have changed my life the most was moving to the United States and the joining the military. When I first arrived in the United States, I was only twelve years old.