For many, sport is more than just an activity or a form of competition. Instead, it is an engagement that allows individuals to escape the pressures of reality, while developing mental, physical, and social skills in a fun atmosphere. However, as sport appeal continues to shift towards becoming increasingly based on success, this perspective begins to change. Emphasis on winning alters the pressure-free and enjoyable environment that athletes are passionate about. As sport becomes stressful and more training-based, many young athletes begin to lose interest. Parents often add to this by pushing their children to their limits by facilitating the belief that the only way to reach their potential is through specialized training and success. Often parents use this unnecessary pressure to fulfill a fantasy or accomplish goals they could not reach in their lifetime through their own children. Ultimately, sport plays a huge role in a child’s growth and development as …show more content…
One of the most complex and sometimes frustrating situations involves parents coaching their own children in a competitive atmosphere. The problem is parent coaches often hold their kids to a higher standard and therefore place greater responsibilities on them. They also don’t want to give their kids special treatment and therefore struggle to find a proper balance. I have experienced this first hand as my dad has coached my hockey team for years. He places a lot of pressure on me because he knows the skill that I have as a player and when I am playing with my full capabilities. Although this can be beneficial, but can also extremely frustrating when my increasing effort does lead to any results. The difference between my dad and other parents is he knows the limits and doesn’t place this pressure on me outside the rink. By knowing when and when not to intervene it allows me to respond to the pressure in a positive
Address a post of one of your classmates for an additional 10 points. 20 points possible. Although I am a young coach I have had a signiffint involvmetn with parets. I have seen both the coaches side of parent interactions and the official side of parental interactions.
This is where the training of coaches comes into play. From a parents perspective the individual that is coaching their kid is very critical to the process. For example, one in every four coaches is considered less than good as seen by parents of the athlete (Aleshire, 2003). In an observational and interview
In the articles “The Secret Life of Tiger Woods” by Wright Thompson and “Are parents ruining youth sports?” by Michael S. Rosenwald both concept the sacrifices one has to take to be an “elite athlete”. I firmly believe that the sacrifices taken to become an “elite athlete” are not ultimately worth it in the long run because of the injuries and health management. To support this, the author from “The Secret Life of Tiger Woods” proclaimed “...he fell down in his backyard without a cellphone and had to just lie there until his daughter happened to find him.” This quote the type of pain Woods lived through because of all his intense golf training. Furthermore, in the article “Are parents ruining youth sports?”
According to the NCAA, only 3.3 percent of high school athletes will play at the Division 1 level and after college, only .05 percent of athletes make it to the professional level. Parents feel that they have invested so much in their child that they expect a rewarding return. The pressure to encourage their child to be successful can be the reason why parents can be aggressive toward their
Summary “Children Need to Play, Not Compete,” by Jessica Statsky is a thoughtful insight on the competitive sports for children. She is of the view that the competitive sports can ruin the enjoyment that games are supposed to provide. These methods of playing the games like adults can prove to be lethal for physical and psychological health. The author quotes from an authentic source that “Kids under the age of fourteen are not by nature physical.” (Tutko)
Children have strived for years to make their parents, teachers and coaches proud of them. Kids have come to practice Monday,Tuesday,Wednesday,Thursday, and Friday to get better, while their academics are suffering. Students have pushed their bodies to the limits, causing extreme injury that will hold them back from sports in the future. Student athletes are not getting the opportunity to play multiple sports during the year, because they are expected to spelize in one sport and focus on it year round, leaving no opportunity to play other sports or do other activities. Youth sports are becoming too intense for young children to keep up with.
Dr. Frank L. Smoll states, “All children and youth need vigorous physical activity as part of their daily lives, and sports provide the benefits of exercise and the potential for acquiring a sense of accomplishment.” (Smoll 1/2).
To most kids and students, competitive sports are a gateway to blow off some steam or to have fun. To parents, the sports that their children play and the lessons that they teach are an important part of their development and life. Despite what many ‘experts’ would like you to believe, both of these statements are completely true. I believe that kids should be allowed to play competitive sports due to the health benefits, the lessons that they can teach, and as a result of the advanced equipment and rules that are focused on making sports safe, as well as the fact that sports can keep kids out of trouble. One extremely important reason that forces me to take the position that kids should be allowed to compete in competitive sports is the health benefits that children who play sports recieve.
Children experience more harmful negative impacts, rather than beneficial positive ones, such as being at a constant risk of severe injury, wanting to opt out of sports early, and being under high levels of stress and anxiety. These impacts could lead to children being injured for an extended amount of time, children being inactive and unfit later in life, children dropping out of school, and many other catastrophic circumstances that children should not have to put up with. The opposing side suggests that children who participate in competitive sports experience positive impacts, such as staying healthy and in shape, and having positive psychological benefits. In some instances, these impacts may be true, however families with a child athlete opted for fast food, ready-made meals more than those of families who did not have a child athlete. Also, while competitive sports provide some psychological benefits, it has also been proven that they can cause stress, anxiety, and ultimately, attrition for the young athlete.
Summary In “Children Need to Play, Not Compete,” Jessica Statsky tries to demonstrate the negative effect of organized sports on the physical and psychological health of growing child. She claims that the games are not festive but they end up in the wrong development of a child’s brain. The coaches and parents have high hopes for their children that result in the pressure building. This changes the purpose of sports from teaching tolerance, teamwork and sportsmanship to merely winning by all means.
“In the U.S., about 30 million children and teens participate in some form of organized sports, and more than 3.5 million injuries each year” claims Stanford Children’s Health. It’s definitely true that competitive sports can cause all sorts of injuries from big to small. The media teaches people simply that sports leads to horrific injuries and can cause stress, but what the mainstream media hardly discusses are the great benefits of competitive sports. While there may be some negatives to competitive sports, that’s just life, and to add on to that; there are plenty of benefits which are sure to override to media’s facts. Kids should play competitive sports because competitive sports teach children powerful life lessons, contributes to their social and mental stability, and because of the physical gain competitive sports provides.
Kids need competition, but not to much. When more pressure is put on from coaches during a game it makes the game two times more competitive. It is really tough for coaches to be able to tell if the pressure it is affecting the kids but they have to be cautious because their words mean a lot. During game action coaches have the most influence on
You feel relaxed when you're with your friends, and when you're doing something that you enjoy doing. However, one side reasons why sports bring many together and connect is maybe they might want the same goal at the end to win a event or make a meaningful memory with others. By participating in a sport, or multiple sports, it can have a positive impact on one’s
Many may argue, that Sports will ruin their daily lives because of time consuming practices and games. People who do play sports with a passion will say, that it is worth your time to practice, because to them it is not just a sport, its somthing they are passionate about. They only want to get better. This fact is supported by an experience of my own. Taking 3-4 hours of my day at in the pool swimming, I used my time practising getting better as a swimmer, and it did put a amont significant of pressure on me, which is true, but that pressure is what made me an amazing competitive
I have been coaching kids for almost 30 years in a variety of sports, as well as being a mother of six beautiful children, and a grandmother of four. I have been married for 27 years to a very dedicated and loving husband and together we work very hard to give our children a strong family foundation of love, faith, religion, morals, ethics and a strong value to do what is right. Today, many families and children do not have these values in their