My younger brother (Ken) and his son (Ty) are two examples of “Outliers” in my family. Although the product of a broken home, with a father both alcoholic and abusive, Ken married his high school sweetheart (Cheri) shortly after graduation. Their marriage though not perfect, soon was blessed with a son making for a happy family and strengthening Ken’s resolve to do better than he had been taught. Life
5 Causes Of A Dysfunctional Family The author of “Into The Wild” John Krakauer shares part of the story of a young man named Chris McCandless about how he gave up everything to hitchhike to Alaska. The important question that people would ask is what made him leave everything to go to Alaska? John Krauer shared a bit of why Chris left which was due to family drama. Two decades later Carine McCandless, Chris's sister, wrote a book called “The Wild Truth'' to share the personal struggles she and Chris went through to find their own truth in different ways.
We learn from the individuals introduced so far in ‘Outliers’ that odd occurrences are not random. Whether it’s a Canadian Hockey Team’s high number of players born early in the year or a South Korean airline with a crash rate higher than its competitors, there’s a logical explanation to it. How about migrant Italians of Roseto, PA with above-average health? Who's diets faired no better than their European counterparts in neighborhoods nearby. Further, the successes of Bill Gates, Bill Joy, and other tech moguls, while not obvious, are also explainable.
Ridley talks about facts and uses logic in regard of divorce rates in twins and criminal records of adoptees in Denmark. Closely observing that divorce rates in twins are partly supported by genetic variation and partly by non-shared environmental factors, it was concluded that, “You are no more likely to divorce if reared in a broken home than the average.” This shows that non-shared environment-- home and parents-- do not affect the person’s choices, characters or personalities but it is rather the environment consisting of peers along with genes that play a role. Similarly adoptees that have a criminal record usually diminish once adopted in a neighbourhood and going to school with non-criminal backgrounds and good morals even if biological and adopting parents have a criminal background. These two examples show strong reasons to support Ridley’s
In Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell, he proves there are numerous factors that which influences the success of failure. To support his idea, he uses examples to demonstrate there are no outliers when it comes to personal success stories. First example is the cut-off date of the Canadian Hockey League, how Bill Gates and the Beatles spent at least 10,000 hours practicing or working on their expertise. In addition, he uses the stories of Chris Langan, and Robert Oppenheimer to compare how one can succeed and how we can fail whether we have extremely high IQs or not. Furthermore, Gladwell utilizes the story of Joseph Flom to show how he was able to build a successful law firms because he wasn’t able to get hired because of racial discrimination.
Wes mentioned in his book that, “The moves from Baltimore to the Bronx to Valley Fore didn’t change my ways of thinking. What changed was that I found myself surrounded by people-starting with my mom, grandparents, uncles, and aunts, and leaders to a string of wonderful role models” etc. (Moore, 2010: p.179). Wes’ life was defined by Minuchin’s structural family system. Although the family was not set in a traditional therapeutic fashion, the intertwined family involvement and strong link and connectivity with each other catapulted Wes’ outcome and course of his journey to differ from The Other Wes.
In the book the author starts off talking about a hockey player rise to the top sport in Canada. Canadian hockey is bias; thousands of people play the sport at a novice level before they even start kindergarten. Multiple different players succeed because they perform well, and the reason for their success is their ability and performance in the sport while other kids can buy their way in. The author then asks us the questions “Is this really the case for their success or are there other factors involved.” This is a book about Outliers and how men and women who do things out of the ordinary.
Not everyone is fortunate enough to be granted with opportunities-- a chance at success. Even then, not everyone is able to utilize them to the fullest -- if the person even takes advantage of it at all. Granted, if the opportunity was even realized in the first place. Malcolm Gladwell, author of Outliers, essentially defines an outlier as a person that takes advantage of a set of opportunities presented to them. These sets of opportunities are not available to everyone and Wes Moore, the author of The Other Wes Moore, happens to be one of the few were fortunate enough to have a set of opportunities prepare him for success.
Outliers: The Story of Success Review There were many things I could agree or disagree with Malcolm Gladwell in his work, and I want to hit them piece by piece. First I want to start off by making a simple agreement to his main point or theory that there is a combination to success which consist mostly of where you come from, and the amount of work you put into something. Two simple quotes that explain his theory "Practice isn 't the thing you do once you 're good. It 's the thing you do that makes you good" and "Those three things - autonomy, complexity, and a connection between effort and reward - are, most people will agree, the three qualities that work has to have if it is to be satisfying".
“Never before has private life been so preyed upon by public life.” (Berry 156). Before the invention of the television set, families were closer together and all the work was done for the good of the family. We had this innate belief that family was one of the most important aspects of our life. In today’s modern society, our ideals have changed and we search for things outside the family life.
Moore asserts that family support shapes one’s identity
It is hard growing up with no parents and family to fall back on. Although many of us don’t realize it, not all of us have the perfect family life. Some people are not fortunate enough to grow up with one set of two loving parents, and that can lead to deeper issues and problems than we suspect. Some do have families but deal with a bad home life. We often take family for granted and don’t realize how lucky we are to come home to a supportive family.
There is a growing complexity and diversity in families. Family systems theory provides a foundation for analysis of such complex and diversified families, making it easy to understand for effective therapy (Zastrow &
Some of the families were more evolved than others, yet all of them faced problems in the family. Gill’s family had to cope with Kevin’s problems as well as dealing with Gill’s job loss and marriage issues. They coped with it by lashing out at each other, and Gill trying harder to be a better dad. While Helen’s family was different from Gill’s family because she was divorced. Everyone in the family was just looking for a male figure in their life.
“The Changing American Family” by Natalie Angier states, “Fictive families are springing up among young people, old people, disabled people, homeless people, and may well define one of the ultimate evolutions of the family concept, maximizing, as they do, the opportunities for fulfillment of specific social and economic needs outside the constraints of biological relatedness.” The ever changing social dynamics and circumstances of this life have opened the definition of family to encompass individuals who can fill those deep-seated needs
Family members may or may not be biologically related, share the same household, or be legally recognized” (Raney, 2015:6). In the series Modern family, it shows the dynamics of a 21st century family and how traditions and culture has evolved over the years. As opposed to “nuclear family” “No longer does the traditional family consist of two parents and two children; instead, more diverse and shifting family structures are becoming the norm.