In my younger and more tender years my father gave me some advice that I’ve been turning over in my mind ever since. He ingrained in me the saying, “What you do not ask for you do not get.” He has repeated this statement repeatedly but we’ve always been unusually distant in the sense that he and I understood that I would have to be captain of the ship that is my life. As a young boy I was naturally reserved and did not like taking risks. Throughout my childhood I tried to integrate my Dad’s aphorism into my life. I strove to find the balance between taking just enough calculated risk to get by, while remaining in my comfort zone. As I entered High School I decided to make a conscious effort to leave the comfort and protection of my quiet childhood …show more content…
International Kuo Shu Championship Tournament in Maryland, apply for the Chinese American Political Association and learn about the democratic process by interning this summer for Contra Costa District Attorney Mark Peterson, go to the inaugural opening of the the Boy Scouts of America National High Adventure Base, Bechtel Summit in West Virginia, to become the founder and president of the Las Lomas Nutrition Club, and meet my cousins from Hawaii for the first time and celebrate with them the life of my Grandmother who lost her battle with cancer this July. The average mind is quick to associate shyness with unwillingness to come out of your comfort zone, and so it came about that in High School, because I had changed so drastically I was unjustly accused of being a different person, because now I am not content with the bare minimum. I take matters into my own hands and I am not afraid to chance
In the story “Growing Up” by Gary Soto, the message trying to be sent is to not take anything for granted. “‘Dad im not going this year’, Maria said to her father. He sat at the table with the newspaper in front of him”. Maria had the impression that she is too mature to go on their trip, so she decides to decline. The climax is at that time since her dad takes it wrong.
Hello again, I am so sorry I’ve emailed you so many times but I would really really like to meet one on one with Gerardo. My initial meeting that was scheduled for February 14th, I had to cancel due to being very sick and not wanting to spread it to him or his family. Are there any open slots? God bless, Rachal Adent
Crackle, pop the fire sounded as I placed new logs on top of the hot embers. This was the fire the children of my village sat around and told stories before they went to sleep, and tonight was no different. All of their eyes stared at me expectantly as they waited for me to start telling them a story. “Two Rivers Running, tell us the Story of the Great Battle again,” the little ones asked. All eyes were on me as I sat down next to them, everyone silent as I told them the story of the Great Battle.
Last summer, my family decided to move to Oregon from a small town in Maine. Throughout high school, I was motivated to try new things. Nevertheless, moving across the country to a school where I knew no one would be the biggest change I ever endured. I was terrified of the unknown. It felt like I was going to a party I wasn’t invited to.
Indeed, if people saw how my father raised me, they would think he was a typical, stereotype Asian father who wanted his son to get A’s. But, to me, it was not anything like that. Instead, I saw that my father wanted me to do well in education because he understood that this world has a system, and by being successful in the education system, I can survive in any system since the education system is by far one of the
The ten dollar founding father without a father Got a lot farther by working a lot harder By being a lot smarter By being a self starter By fourteen, they placed him in front of a trading charter jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj and I don 't know what I do is it just makes it a try to get the ten dollar for the next few weeks of a lot more fun and addicting and I don 't think that I have a great way of the day before I get a lot more fun and addicting and I have a great way to go out with the best way for me I was in my room for a long way in which a great way to go out with my family and friends of a new song on my mind and the rest is history is not an easy to play the
“Don’t give in.” My father tried to encourage
It was the last inning in our all-star game, and we were losing 10 to 8. Our team had 2 outs and we couldn’t get the third. Our pitcher was doing bad, throwing all balls, while all of us in the field were tired, ready to fall asleep at any moment. There goes another walk. They score again.
Many of my teachers remarked me as “reassuring”, and a lot of my friends have told me that “It seems that you’re so chilled but you actually know what you’re doing”. Yes, I was born with a phlegmatic personality, but it was not until last year when I “failed” the AMC (luckily I was still qualified for the AIME) that I started to learn how to manage time and resource wisely and actually grew up. I spent my first 14 years in my life in China, and in the summer 2013, I moved to US with my family, seeking for new challenges-- I’ve always believed that unfamiliar environment provokes one to learn the most. However though I thought I was prepared for the worst, things got out of hand, as how it goes every time one is put in a new wonder land. It didn’t take more than a month to surmount the language barrier, but
One time my mom told me i Morries advice is something that i have followed before in my life. During this quote he was becoming a lightning rod of ideas and writing them down on yellow pads, envelopes, folders, scrap paper. In this quote “Accept what you are able to do and what you can 't do”. My life has made a connection with this quote a couple of years ago. A couple of years ago my dad had me do brakes on a car and i knew I could do that
Usually in life, it is best for anyone to take a step back to the past and look at the big picture. No one could flatter himself that he is immune to the changes around him. Moreover, with all the demands that life can put on a person, sometimes it is easy to lose the essence of “me”. By losing this essence, the person could develop either a better version or a worse version of himself. Looking back at the beginning of this year (freshman year), I have been just that young soul eager to meet life’s challenges especially culture changing challenges.
In Amy Tan’s short story, “Two Kinds,” she demonstrates the powerful, harmful effect of a parent's’ high expectations and how it can be detrimental to one’s child. Parents want to give what’s best for their kids and will go through any necessary means to obtain that. Whether it be through change of environment or change of behavior for the child, parents blindlessly strive towards that goal without a second thought. Expectations may arise along the way as parent’s form an idolized idea of what they want as their child. Much to Jing-mei’s chagrin, her mother believes that shaping her into a superstar will grant her the happiness and recognition she deserves.
My five signature themes were: Achiever- As an Achiever, “No matter how much you may feel you deserve a day of rest, if the day passes without some form of achievement, no matter how small, you will feel dissatisfied.†Sometimes people call me an overachiever, but that is how I feel is my normal. Harmony- I do not like when people argue because I feel there is a better way for everyone to get along. Once everyone is in harmony, life is much smoother. Input-
I remember when I was young I would always think that when you start bleeding from your head that always meant that you were going to die. Well at least that is what I thought. On television, it would sort of be the same I would see people pass out because they were bleeding from the head. One day in Mexico, I was on the swings and I had seen one of my uncles he was my age, he jumped of the swing at midair and my father was taking care of us so he goes to my uncle to check on him and see if he was okay. Well as I see my father walking away, I panicked.
When looking back at how nature vs. nurture play a role into things; I can see that I have inherited my parents risk taking but based on the way I was raised I have modified it into taking calculated and well thought out risks that always possess more benefits than risks. For example, I purposely chose to apply to medical schools early even though I had not intent of going right after I graduated. I ultimately want to be accepted to a MD/MBA program and I know with my current qualifications I do not make the best candidate but I still chose to apply to my top schools so