Parent’s Perspective All parents have different and similar ways of raising their children throughout their lives so they can prosper into intelligent and admirable young adults. The different and similar parenting techniques are portrayed in the novel, The Body Of Christopher Creed by Carol Plum- Ucci, when Torey Adam’s parents and Christopher Creed’s parents show their parenting techniques. Throughout the story, it is evident that Christopher Creed’s and Torey Adam’s parents have very different relationships with their children and different ways of parenting and teaching them. In Carol Plum- Ucci’s novel, The Body of Christopher Creed, Torey Adam’s parents and Christopher Creed’s parents had very similar and different parenting techniques, …show more content…
Torey’s mom has a more calm and gentle, yet strict way of showing her authority. Whereas, Mrs. Creed has more of a commanding and aggressive approach when showing her authority. After the phone call incident, Torey and his mother were at the police station waiting to see if Bo Richardson would get convicted of any felonies. As Bo and Mrs. Creed were arguing about the phone call and the breaking and entering incident, Mrs. Adam’s calmly, “Stood up. She looked too calm and too slow in this storm. She turned around and looked [Torey] dead in the eye and said, ‘[He] needs to do two things: Stay calm and keep [Ali] calm’” (Plum- Ucci 99). Normally, when there is so much chaos and catastrophe occurring, one would become annoyed and take it out on others in an intrusive way, but Mrs. Adams did the opposite. She remains calm, yet authoritative, while others are arguing and hysterically crying. On the other hand, Mrs. Creed shows her dominion over others with encroachment and demand. She gives orders and expects them to be obeyed, like when putting her children to bed she commands, “Lights- out. . . Troops, march. . .’” (Plum- Ucci 72). Mrs. Creed has a more forceful way of showing that she is in charge than Mrs. Adams does. She gives them an order and they must obey it. Showing authority and love can be portrayed by parents in various …show more content…
Obviously, both sets of parents loved their children, but they had very different ways of showing it. Torey’s mother is more of a nonchalant kind of mom, whereas Christopher’s mother is more pretentious and strict and that changes how they show their love to their kids. After Torey went through the traumatic experience of finding a 20 year old dead body in a burial ground, his mother expressed that, “‘[She] [can not] begin to imagine what [Torey] must have gone through in that cave. [She] [has] known [him] since before [he] was born. And [Torey] is the last person in the world who should have seen that’” (Plum-Ucci 229). She loves and cares for him deeply and strongly believes that he never should never have gone through such a life- changing experience like that. Along the same lines, Mrs. Creed has a great deal of love for Christopher, but shows it differently than Mrs. Adams does. Mrs. Creed has a more vigilant form of showing love, like when she explains that, “‘Chris was allowed to go out! [Mr. and Mrs. Creed] offered to drive him to the dances! [She] even signed up to chaperone the dances, before he said he was not really into them’” (Plum- Ucci 174). She obviously loved him enough to offer to be there with him at dances, and to bring him to the dances, but she was doing too much. Mrs. Creed was going into too much
Can two young boys with similar backgrounds grow up to be two completely different men? The Other Wes Moore book, by Wes Moore (the author) takes us on a journey back to his child-hood as well as the child-hood of young men with the same name. Wes Moore (the author) describes on The Other Wes Moore book, how these two young men grew up just nearby each other, both surrounded by drugs and crime in a bad environment. Wes Moore (the author) was first Rhodes Scholar of John Hopkins in fifteen years, a combat veteran and white house fellow. Whereas the other Wes Moore was a drug dealer and spending his life in prison.
The role of parents in a child’s life is an irreplaceable one. Children are shaped by what they see their parents do and how they see them act. Children can choose to pattern themselves after what they see their parents do or they can choose to avoid being like their parents. In the story ‘Ashes’ by Susan Beth Pfeffer, Recent research shows, fathers affect the lives of their young adult daughters in intriguing and occasionally surprising ways. Ashes’ father can be mostly described as a good parent.
In our life, we often have experiences that teach us how and what we want to be like when we grow up. Everyone has ups and downs from time to time that make one want to stop and other times make one want to run while individually they feel free. The Garden Story by Katherine Mansfield and The First Born Son by Ernest Buckler both show how parental pressure, social pressure, and family pressure around an individual can influence the way one will treat others. Once in a while it is an advantage when they want to change the world to make it better for others, but oftentimes it is for the worse because they personally accept the problems they have and never trying to fix them. Both stories have parental influences that want them to stay as they are, tradition influences that professions stay in the family, and they are always compared to the better child that is more like by parents.
Parental Influence Parents are the biggest influence upon their children. From the time a child is born to the time they leave the household, the values that the parents hold are instilled into their children. Parents are required to make crucial decisions about how to raise their children in order to guide them through the inevitable obstacles and hardships of life. In The Glass Castle, many would argue the lack of care and responsibility the Walls had for their children. The author, Jeannette Walls, uses Rex and Mary Walls to demonstrate that their strong traits of non-conformity, self-sufficiency and perseverance are passed on to their children, allowing them to develop to their full potential.
The ultimate goal of all parents is to see that their children succeed in life. While this may be true, most fathers have additional expectations of their children, as is evident in author Lord Chesterfield’s letter to his son traveling far from home. These expectations are expressed in the rhetorical strategies utilized by Chesterfield. In addition to demonstrating his desires for his son, the rhetorical strategies implemented in the letter reveal the values Chesterfield holds as true. In order to persuade his son that the knowledge he holds is pertinent, Chesterfield first disbands the notion that parents only give advice to exert control over a child, then ties the ability and pride of himself to the success of his son, and finally suggests
Through the use of allusions, pathos, and precise language, Adams is able to effectively advise her son. These rhetorical devices are used to help ingrain confidence in her son, establish the emotional connection between mother and son, and outline her expectations for her son. Adams’ use of allusions helps her son become more confident in his abilities. In line 40 of her letter, Adams asks “Would Cicero have shone so distinguished an orator if he had not been roused, kindled, and inflamed by the tyranny of Catiline, Verres and Mark Anthony?”. Through this allusion, Adams portrays the message that one needs to face great adversity before they can become great.
This boy, paralleling the boy in “From Childhood,” is being smothered so much so that it is impacting his life negatively. Though some might argue that his attention induced embarrassment is typical of a growing child, context clues point to his mother’s overbearing nature as the direct culprit of his discomfort. The relationship between the parties of both “From Childhood” and “Mother and Son” are uncanny. But even so, the way in which the mother in “Mother and Son” acts overbearingly differs to that of the overbearing actions of the mother in “From Childhood,” thus giving this maternal relation its own place on the wide-ranged
The comparison of characters is something an author allows us to do while reading a story, by telling us about the characters’ looks, their personalities, their lifestyles, and also the traits that may describe a character. “Everyday Use” written by Alice Walker, two characters named Maggie and Dee had a few things in common and many differences from each other. The characters Maggie and Dee, also known as “Wanergo,” are sisters who compete on who inherits the family heirlooms. The story is told from the mother’s (Mama’s) point of view.
The upbringing of a child contains many factors, many of which correlate to where a child grows up. The people, culture, and experiences of someone’s childhood are the greatest determining factor for what kind of person they will become. So how does the nature and nurture of one’s upbringing impact the decisions that they make, and their life in general? Author Wes Moore explores this question in his memoir, The Other Wes Moore, as it relates to two lives in particular. Moore main purpose in this book is to explore the overarching impact that a collection of expectations and decisions, not always one’s own, can have on someone’s life.
Powder analysis Essay In the short story “Powder” by Tobias Wolff, a father and son’s relationship undergoes a shifting dynamic due to the father’s procrastination. Wolff achieves a strengthening relationship between the boy and his father by using literary devices. Wolff illustrates the changing father-son relationship through one pivotal moment during the car ride home.
A father figure can determine how that child develops, whether that figure could provide a fit influence for the child, show affection and care for that child, or just having a presence in his son’s life will affect how his son will come to be. The father figure shows significance in the biography, Into the Wild by Jon Krakauer. Krakauer’s novel focuses on the life and travels of Christopher McCandless during the year of 1992. In the novel, Krauker alludes to McCandless’ unstable relationship with his father. “Into the Wild Chris McCandless’ Sister Says He Was Determined to Cut Ties with Parents” from ABC News further delves into McCandless’ problematic relationship with his father, as this article goes in depth into each situation that may
Boyhood is a 2014 American drama film directed and written by Richard Linklater. It is a coming of age story. The film was created over 12-year span with the same people. It includes among 2002-2013. Basically, the movie is about a young boy named Mason and his family.
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In a usual family, there are set roles. A father, mother, and children. Stereotypically, each role is supposed to have a set job- the father is in charge of the family, making the rules, the mother cooks and helps the children, and the children play. This stereotype is slowly changing throughout the years, and some could argue that it is different for their family. One thing that should be true in all families, is that the parents are good role models for their children, leading them in the right direction in life.
There is no doubt about it when it comes to the famous stories of Ernest Hemingway. For instance, the saga of the depressed character known as Nick Adams. So much so, there are many famous stories about the titular character Hemingway wrote back in the day, Truth be told, the majority of his short stories depicting Nick Adams, is the persona of Hemingway. In the mist of Hemingway’s broken life, he creates the famous short stories of Nick Adams going on melancholic adventures one story to the next, with each of Adams’ stories telling us the same exact theme. The theme in question is constant loneliness.