The Unequal Pressure Between Men And Women In Mirror, Mirror

Men are not expected to be hot, they are simply expected to be men. As for a woman, you must be hot, educated, nurturing, and more to be accepted by society. For this reason, if you aren’t accepted by the world, how can you easily accept yourself? However, Tina Fey continues to motivate her audience when she says, “If you retain nothing else, always remember the most important rule of beauty, which is: who cares?”. This is reinforcing that you shouldn’t care about another person’s opinion.

Every day we are bombarded with ideas of how the human body should look- men need to be muscular and women should be fit and toned. In fact, these norms are taught at a very early age, and through various social institutions. It is especially evident in Disney movies, just take a look a Gaston in Beauty and the Beast, or Ariel in the Little Mermaid, children are constantly being subjected to these masculine and feminine ideals and it will continue throughout their life. Magazines will place photo-shopped models on their front covers, while radio stations promote testosterone boosters for men. Although these ideal body types are impossible to achieve, society still has the expectation that we should strive to be as physically attractive as possible

In today’s modern culture, almost all forms of popular media play a significant role in bombarding young people, particularly young females, with what happens to be society’s idea of the “ideal body”. This ideal is displayed all throughout different media platforms such as magazine adds, television and social media – the idea of feminine beauty being strictly a flawless thin model. The images the media displays send a distinct message that in order to be beautiful you must look a certain way. This ideal creates and puts pressure on the young female population viewing these images to attempt and be obsessed with obtaining this “ideal body”. In the process of doing so this unrealistic image causes body dissatisfaction, lack of self-confidence

It is no mystery that women struggle with body image on a daily basis. It is also no mystery that young girls look up to their mothers and follow in their footsteps. In an advertisement by Body Image Movement, they exploit a little girl who is concerned about her weight to show that beauty standards effect women of all ages and sizes and that young girls like the one in the ad follow in their mother’s footsteps. This ad is heavy in ethos, pathos and logos and appeals to its viewers in a way in which they want to make a change on beauty standards and make sure that no girls at any age feels the need to fit into society’s beauty standards.

In the following passage from the book, Mirror for Man, Clyde Kluckhohn explains the concept of culture and how it shapes many of our behaviors. People behave in certain ways because that is how they were brought up into this world. Kluckhohn stated that the role of culture can predict and understand human behavior. He then explains how these acts are are not due to accidental, personal peculiarities, or supernatural force. Many Americans “follow most of the time a pattern not of our own making.”

According to a survey done by Jesse Fox, Ph.D., 80% of women feel bad about themselves just by looking in the mirror (Dreisbach). This has happened because of social media being changed to make girls feel like they need to have a certain body shape. Models and celebrities in magazines and media show unrealistic beauty and it contributes to eating disorders, depression, anxiety, and much more (Seventeen magazine). Media has put lots of stress on women throughout history with changing body shapes. A survey done by Dove found results that 9 out of 10 women want to change at least one aspect of their physical appearance.

Change Starts With You: An Analysis of Michael Jackson’s “Man in the Mirror” 1980s pop megastars were responsible for guiding pop culture into a revolution of emerging trends. A decade full of discrimination, immigration, homosexuality, poverty, and health crises, where the public looked towards celebrities for inspiration. Michael Jackson, King of Pop broke more social barriers than any other icon of his time. Michael’s 1987 hit, “Man in the Mirror” was an upbeat pop song that inspired a revolution. The soulful melody brings attention to the need for change in a world full of discrimination, narcissism, and neglect, while provoking the thought that change begins with ‘you’.

Men and women nowadays are starting to lose self-confidence in themselves and their body shape, which is negatively impacting the definition of how beauty and body shape are portrayed. “...97% of all women who had participated in a recent poll by Glamour magazine were self-deprecating about their body image at least once during their lives”(Lin 102). Studies have shown that women who occupy most of their time worrying about body image tend to have an eating disorder and distress which impairs the quality of life. Body image issues have recently started to become a problem in today’s society because of social media, magazines, and television.

Body image has become such a big issue among society especially females mostly. According to Mariana Gozalo, states “Using Will’s sociological imagination, I thought about how there are girls who wish to look skinny because it is what is being idolized on TV and magazines and online ads. “Social media make us believe that there is a “ideal body” shape. In my opinion, there is no such a thing as the ideal body shape, because everyone is beautiful in their own individual way.

“Body dissatisfaction, negative body image, concern with body size, and shape represent attitudes of body image. ”(Dixit 1), women are so obsessed with looking good that they are missing out on enjoying

There is still a peacock effect, where women are the one’s attracting men, while men go out to find the women. The patriarchal surroundings that still exist are the reason why this is the case and is why it is still very prevalent among women for them to care about looks and is why rich and famous men tend to have more attractive spouses than them. This reflects to how men used to dominate women, as seen with Theseus and Hippolyta; the only way up in life and society as a woman was to marry up in class. This thankfully is much less frequent nowadays and hopefully be completely faded out as women become complete equals and no longer have to worry about attractiveness to move up in

Furthermore, the media (magazines, commercials, even some doctors) presents images of what an ideal body of a woman looks like, and if they don’t abide by that, they are ostracized (Lee, Shaw, 2014). Beauty norms tell females that they need to be attractive, thin, wear the nicest clothes, and in general appeal to men. Transversely, these norms tell men that they need to be strong and assertive. Bodies that do not fit into one side of the dichotomy of masculine/feminine are seen negatively. Women are also expected to and rewarded for having longer hair than men.

According to Hart, Ottati and Krumdick political candidates who are considered physically attractive are evaluated more favourably by voters than unattractive candidates (2011). It is widely believed that physical attractiveness plays a key role in the creation of new relationships. The way a person looks is the first thing you notice about them, before you come to know their personality and character and looks can be the reason you begin contact or not. Generally in new relationships, people are matched according to their physical attractiveness, and the more attractive their partner is, the happier the person in the relationship is. Overall, physical attractiveness has a positive effect on relationship (A Lofty Existence, 2011).

When interested in someone, people tend to rate that person highly not only on their appearance, but on other traits as well due to one observable trait (Norman, 2013). According to the halo effect, “a person’s favorability of personality attributions increases monotonically with physical attractiveness” (Lucker, 1981). Many other aspects of personality are rated based upon physical attractiveness and according to a study, a woman’s femininity, sexiness, and happiness is strongly related to her physical attractiveness (Lucker, 1981). If you find someone attractive, you are most likely going to hope that they have a personality that matches their appearance. Therefore, we contribute

Feminist theorist Diana Meyers studied the agency of women in “Gender in the Mirror: Cultural Imagery and Women’s Agency.” Meyers theorizes that women gain their agency in two primary ways: beauty and narcissism. Meyers applies this theory to the twenty-first century and correlates the rise of cosmetic surgery and the beauty industry to women’s desperation for agency through appearing beautiful. Under this theory, women intermingle their existence with their agency and “unlike Narcissus, who believes he is in love with a beautiful, submerged Other, women are positioned to believe that they will perish if the image in the glass disappears” (Meyers 123). Then, through self-serving actions devoted to achieving beauty ideals, women unintentionally