A frequent thing that comes up for developments affected toward childhood is society. Society, be of rank, the norm, etc greatly impacts a child more than anything. In The Domostroi, states, “A man who loves his son will whip him often so that when he grows up…find profit in him…pride..make enemies jealous and will boast” (Doc 1), it says that if a child is whipped, educated, disciplined, that the child will grow up to be a good person and that their families will be able to make profit of him, and be amazing that others will get jealous. This applies to all ranks in society. Wither they be nobles or peasants, if a person greatly believes in what the general public hears and knows about or pretend to know about, they will apply it to their …show more content…
As it was said before, rank does not matter when it comes to kids and parents. As long as they wish for their kids to grow up and become better than they are now, it’s all good. Jean-Jacques Rousseau, a philosophe, in Amsterdam in 1762 stated, “An excess of rigor and an excess of indulgences are both to be avoided. If you let your children suffer, you expose their health, their lives. You make them miserable in the present. If by too much care you spare them every kind of discomfort, yon are preparing great miseries for them; you make them delicate, sensitive.” (Doc 7) Rousseau believes that if you are too hard on your child you will make them miserable, and nowadays, you will have gone to jail with child abuse, and your kid can get messed up in the head and commit a grave crime. Yet he also believes that if you are too easy on your kid, which they will become wild or too kind and sensitive and that is equally as bad for example kids on scared straight. So that leaves a equal amount of punishment and kindness can go a long way into affecting childhood between
Both can affect young kids very much. WIthout a presence of authority or a role model, children are dumb. They don’t know how to do things correctly and will go with their primal instincts and most often it does not go well. Aswell, as a kid having a negative role model is terrible. They will not know right from wrong because at such a young age they are very impressionable.
It is the key to our development because it makes us who we are and how we’ll be when we get older. I think that if a child is raised to treat people respectfully and knows what’s bad and good, they won’t have these bad tendencies. When you look at a baby, you do not see them as evil beings. Babies follow the people around them. They grab information from their surroundings.
The Raising of children has been a topic that has changed quite a lot because things change due to the surroundings of the child and who they are bore from. Children from the 16th - 17th century were treated well based on their social status on birth, if you were born into wealth you would likely survive and if you were born a bastard or into poverty then you would be more likely to die of disease or infanticide. Although infanticide was rampant in Europe during these times it had been going for ages, like in Sparta when children were born female or weak they would kill them because they weren’t good enough to be born into their society. The adults opinion on children over time changed from loving their children to killing them changed a lot
Giving a child harsh punishments can lead to great tragedy like the death of Haimon and Antigone. When a kid had no input on their set of rules they will find ways to get around them without being caught. This could include sneaking out after a set curfew or lying about their whereabouts. When doing these things, there can be very bad outcomes such as gettings seriously injured or even getting in bad situations where death is a factor. When a there is a strong relationship between parents and children, trust will be gained and you will be able to communicate feelings on certain topics were disagreement arrises.
For a child, childhood should be free and happy. But the author had to learn to adapt to the abnormal life at a young age with her mother, and learned how to utilize the current resources. In addition, when she grew up, she still remembered the details of that period. It is not difficult for us to imagine how deeply impressed she was by her childhood experience. It was just the inequality that brought pressure to children.
Some people might argue that a child’s upbringing forms the child’s foundation of life. It forms the child’s identity and its view of life. The upbringing of children is a wide concept because it is never the same. The question is if there is an edge between upbringing and torture. The intention of upbringing is indisputable – you want your children to have a great life and a great future, but perchance certain ways of educating children can cause more damage than good.
The type of childhood that an individual goes through is critical in determining the type of adult they become. It is very important for parents to take care and protect their children from negative events that affect them significantly. Gacy was
There was a strong correlation between the perceptions of children and how they were disciplined. Since children during the 16th century were viewed as sinners who needed to be fixed through education and strict discipline, parents would harshly control their children through threats and beatings. As seen in Doc 1C and Doc 2C, children were “sharply taunted, so cruelly threatened...sometimes with pinches and bobs” (Doc 1C) and often “cast [on] the ground and spurned and kicked” (Doc 2C). The circumstances children had to undergo were jarring and savage. Children, in return, viewed their parents as their masters whom they must obey.
Children are like plants. If you take good care of the plants they will grow strong and thriving and give you flowers. You get the same results with children. If you treat them well and teach them right from wrong, they will become strong individuals in the future. Teaching children right from wrong is the principal key in a child’s life, but many argue if some of the techniques used to punish kids are really helping them learn the correct ways of life.
Children learn how to behave from their caregivers. When dysfunctional caregivers give an unhealthy verbal or nonverbal message, the message of the caregivers become part of the children’s own opinion of themselves. The behaviors of grandiosity and arrogance come from a family that teaches the children to find faults with others. If caregivers treat their children as if they do not make mistakes or all mistakes that they make are the parent’s fault, they give the child the idea that they are perfect when in all reality they are “perfectly imperfect”. Such children are sometimes scolded and shamed by their caregivers or other individuals because of their arrogance and grandiosity.
The poems Childhood, by Margaret Walker, Father, by Edgar Albert Guest, and History Lesson,by Natasha Trethewey, all contain a similar aspect, which is that the narrators are looking back on parts of their childhood and remembering how their lives were never perfect. Childhood’s narrator looks back on a past where everyone around them was poor and generally had to mine to survive. We know this because of the first 6 lines, talking about the red miners. We also know that it was a rural area, given the 7th and 8th lines. Such a past seems pretty bleak for everyone who lived there.
Children need us as adult to guide them and provide them their knowledge from the environment through learning and practice from time to time; they need to be mold and shapes by us through our observation. On the other hand, Rousseau believed that children are born with their natural instincts and minimize the obstacles of civilization and let them explore life, learn by themselves and face obstacles by knowing what is wrong and what is right. Children learn
The Survival Guide of Childhood Your safe place. The place where you can be at peace, relax, and be with your family and friends. However, it can also be the most scariest and hardest place to live in the world. The reason for this is your parents. Sure they love you unconditionally, but there are also times where you want to run away and hide.
Child development is an area of significant interest to professionals who deal with children on a daily basis. It is through child development theorists and their theories that we begin to form an understanding of how children develop emotionally and socially to become fully grown adults in society with a moral and emotional compass/. Teachers need to study child development in order to provide developmentally appropriate educational experiences for children. Health professionals also need to understand this area to support children in their physical, social, emotional and cognitive journey to becoming functioning adults in society. Childhood is a concept that is affected by social context and also by history. Here in the West childhood was not always considered to be a fundamental developmental phase in life with children in Victorian times working from as early as the age of four.
I. Introduction A. P. J. O 'Rourke once said “Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them” (O’Rourke, Pg.10). Parents always want their children to be better than what they used to be when they were at their age; that is why they care about every detail in their children’s life especially when it comes to behavior, obeying them and listening to their words. B. Background Information: i. People came to realize that physical punishment is a rough, atrocious, unacceptable mean of punishment that should be banned for its appalling, horrifying effects. ii. Facts about physical punishment (sources used) 1.