Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Famously known as the five stages of grief, these emotions affect everyone on the unpredictable spectrum of despair in different ways. Many people may wonder how the grieving process begins, what may spark it, or if the start of depressing emotions is catered to each individual’s mind. Nothing can be compared to the feeling of loss and emptiness created by grief, as seen by the way it presents itself on the outside of the humans that are affected by it. “Long Way Down” by Jason Reynolds and “The Stone Boy” by Gina Berriault explore the emotional phenomenon of grief by presenting characters who have both recently lost their brother in a gun shooting, a brother who they cared about very deeply. …show more content…
Once having seen Eugie’s dead body on the ground, Arnold observes, “Then Arnold saw it, under the tendril of hair at the nape of the neck–a slow rising of bright blood. It had an obnoxious movement, like that of a parasite…Arnold set his rifle on the ground and stood up. He picked up the tub and, dragging it behind him, walked along by the willows to the garden fence and climbed through,” (Berriault 3). After Arnold had shot his brother, he is filled with disgust when looking at the pool of blood that is leaking from the shot wound in his brother’s body, and he doesn’t know what to do. Arnold has yet to feel the depression from losing his brother, and as a result of this, is not sure what his next decision is going to be. The grief of losing his brother is slowly creeping into his life, and at this moment, is causing him to return to the routine of bringing the peas back to his house. Normally, when someone experiences sudden loss, they cry, scream, and/or completely shut down. However, as the type of grief that Arnold is just beginning to go through is not allowing him to understand that his brother is gone, it has caused him to feel desensitized. This desensitized sensation is what further leads him to bring the peas back up the hill to his family. When a person is desensitized, they will go through their daily life without feeling as though anything disastrous has just happened, similar to how Arnold does not truly feel as though his brother has died. This sensation influences him into returning to the one thing that will feel somewhat normal, which is bringing the peas
Authors utilise a range of emotive scenarios allowing the reader, to immerse themselves in situations that aren’t common to what they normally experience. Through various means, author Tim Pegler, delves into the concepts of grief and sadness in his novel “Five Parts Dead.” Pegler effectively explores and addresses the results of traumatic scenarios upon the individuals, both directly and indirectly. Additionally, Pegler uses emotive language to portray the life of protagonist to be consumed by tremendous guilt and grief, another contributing factor is the fact that the protagonist emotions are portrayed through the first person point of view, thus strengthening connections made with the protagonist and the reader. As well as the protagonist,
He reflects on the indescribable pain, sadness, and loss that he had to endure during this horrific
Grief, the universal process of mourning, materializes differently in each person. Some swiftly overcome it, able to accept their loss and move on. Others concede to despair and develop Complicated Grief Disorder: “a period of mourning after a loss…that exceeds six months and is expressed through…a maladjustment and lack of acceptance of death, social isolation and suicidal tendencies” (Avrutin para. 5). Ethan Frome, the protagonist of Edith Wharton’s novella of the same name, continually struggles with this particular disorder.
With the spiritual presence of his family, he feels their support and finally lets everything he has been holding in
Grief and its complex journey to either recovery or non-recovery is a universal condition long examined in literature. Steven Hall’s novel, The Raw Shark Texts, delves into the complications and impacts of this experience, following protagonist Eric Sanderson as he navigates through the various stages of mourning. Hall captures the intense anguish and desperation of grieving as Eric confronts dangerous creatures that prey on memories, and battles with the ghosts of his past due to severe memory and identity loss. Various emotions, including denial and self-rejection, remorse, fear, rage, bargaining, and ultimately acceptance, are seen throughout Eric’s grieving process. This essay will trace Eric’s progression through these several phases of
In Robert Newton’s 2005 novel, Runner, the concept of loss is a common theme that occurs to many characters within the novel, with Robert Newton showing them to manage loss in many different ways. Some examples of how the characters have managed loss are by moving on and being resilient after experiencing loss, grieving the loss and having a stage of isolation, or having no option but to embrace the loss and live with it. Robert Newton has shown us how the different characters in Runner manage loss in many ways, expressing to us that loss is quite a complex concept and can be dealt with using various strategies. Within the Runner, we mainly observe the actions of Charlie Feehan after the loss of his father, with him being the main example of
This means that it shows how humans truly act and feel in situations that could happen and how humans care or hate for others. The five stages of grief are denial, anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. In Elsewhere, Liz experiences this. When she first dies, she does not believe that she has died. She thinks she is in a dream and that she will wake up and be home.
Both Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, by John Foer, and When There‘s no Word like Widow, by Kyleigh Leddy, are stories detailing a person‘s experience around grief. ELIC is about a 9-year-old child, Oskar, who lost his dad on 9/11. Oskar‘s weird personality leads him on a journey to try and find out the purpose of a key in his dad‘s closet. Throughout the story, we see how Oskar’s actions correlate to his grief such as hitting himself or spending lots of time in his father’s closet. WTNWLW is a personal narrative about Kyleigh and how her sister went missing and committed suicide.
This shows how his environment has changed him, and even when it came to his father's death, he didn't even shed a tear, he was just emotionally incapable, and he even was relieved that his father had
Grief is the process of reacting to a loss. It can be reacted physically by death, socially, divorce or occupational. In this case, grief is presented in the novel Brother, which is narrated by Micheal based on how him and his mother grieved over the sudden death of his Brother Francis who was snot ten years old at the age of 19 . In Brother, David Chariandy showed anger, losing touch with reality, and loneliness as the main effects of grief First, disconnection to reality can lead to anger, another symptom of grief.
He thinks he has seen too much in his life. He feels old. Old of life and wants to die, he wants to see the friends that he once knew. He is able to keep his mind off of that and all of the other things he saw/did
When people are traumatized by an event they are pushed to experience the five stages of grief. The “Gospel”, by Philip Levine and “the boy detective loses love”, by Sam Sax both use characters that are going through one of the stages of grief. Levine and Sax both explain the thoughts and process of what a person thinks when they go through these stages with imagery. Levine uses symbolism, a sad tone, and a set setting in “Gospel” to illustrate that grieving takes you into a depth of thoughts. Sax uses anaphoras, an aggressive tone, and an ambiguous setting to convey that grieving takes you into a tunnel of anger and rage.
In enduring these complex emotions, this section was the most remarkable part. One of the first apparent emotions the boy experiences with the death of his father is loneliness to make this section memorable. The boy expresses this sentiment when he stays with his father described as, “When he came back he knelt beside his father and held his cold hand and said his name over and over again,” (McCarthy 281). The definition of loneliness is, “sadness because one has no friends or company.”
These stages of grief were based on her studies of the feelings of patients facing terminal illness, but many people have generalized them to other types of negative life changes and losses, such as the death of a loved one or a break-up. The five stages of grief Denial: “This can’t be happening to me.” Anger: “Why is this happening? Who is to blame?”
He realizes he is in exile and there really is nothing he nor anyone else can do about it. By accepting his life, (luck and fate in all) of being in exile, it makes for a much calmer journey(for the time that these emotions