Why Do People Want To Fit In Society

In today’s society the general attitude towards an individual is conform or be an outcast. It is seen in schools where people who do not fit into specific cliques become outcasts, the weird people. It is seen in the work place as well. People have conformed to standards set by society simply because society has said to do so. Society asks people to change themselves to fit in.

It’s almost as though I don’t belong in the culture. I don’t talk like them, I don’t think the same way, I don’t have the same beliefs and I don’t have the same

Individuality VS. Conformity: The Healthy Middle? The author in the article, Individuality VS. Conformity: The Healthy Middle? discuses, on how most of high school students try to fit in but also try to be different at the same time. The author supports her discussion by Illustrating different types of examples that make us different but that also make it difficult to fit in, like: “What about the kid who confesses to his best friend that he’s gay, and then looks up to meet a horrified expression?”

In-groups are not just limited to large, broad generalizations but each one can have individual sub-groups as Allport states: “Thus, in-groups are often recreated to fit the needs of individuals,”(4). In-groups are not limited to their broadest points, but each have subcultures based on different circumstances. The punk in-group promotes a sense of discord and is a clique that has oppressing

Everyone goes through one point of life not being able to fit in a group. Some people believe that being an outsider isn’t universal, however, if everyone fits in why is would bullying be a big problem in schools. People also believe that everyone has groups to fit in, but not everyone fits in social classes. From my experience, I know what it’s like to not fully fit in with the popular kids. They don’t really talk to you and they believe that they are more superior, which is not the case at all.

One must carefully observe the actions of those who “belong” in society to discern how to belong themselves. Following these “rules of conformity’ could include offering respect to the leader of the group or mimicking those in the group, either by their speech, personality, dress, or general behavior. Even one’s background, nationality, or religion can determine whether or not one truly belongs, but ultimately, group identity cannot be forced. Society and groups within it constantly change and are often exclusive, making belonging for newcomers difficult to obtain and can make those who feel they belong question if they truly do“fit

In order to fit in, you must conform to what society considers normal. When Micheal Ignatieff, Professor of the Practice of Human Rights Policy at Harvard University, made the observation that, “To belong is to understand the tacit codes of the people you live with”, Ignatieff was simply putting into words the natural obligation everyone feels when it comes to fitting in and following the rules society places on people without discussion. This

In school I wasn’t exactly a loner, but I didn’t exactly fit in either. I had people to talk to but they wouldn’t stay for a long time, at least not long enough to be considered friends. Instead of having plenty of friends and getting in trouble for being too rowdy in the lunchroom, I was the Asian girl who fit the stereotype of being smart. The people who would come up to me usually only came to ask for help on classwork and I was too shy to approach other people due to being insecure. So to say my social and communication skills were bad was an understatement.

What does it mean to be accepted? Acceptance plays a big role in our everyday lives. It gives us motivation and helps increase our self-esteem. It’s also provides a sense of belonging and a no judgement zone if mistakes are made which decreases the anxiety one might have. Everyone has a purpose in life and fitting in somewhere helps you identify what that purpose is.

Foreigners make up one quarter of the U.S. population (U.S. Immigration Statistics). In other words, 81,281,909 people are left struggling to find a community in which they belong. As a result, cliques are created based off similar beliefs and languages. However, there are measures a person can take in order to become accepted into a particular group that they might otherwise not belong in. Manipulating language is one resource that can be used to blend into a desired community.

Fitting in. In other words “to fit in.” How can two simple words influence society and hold such weight over adolescents and even adults? Though my mind can’t understand the idea of what this phrase truly means, these words genuinely took a toll on me for a period of time during my semester here at Stony. If someone asked me what fitting in meant two years ago, I would have responded stating that “in order to “fit in,” you must have a lot of friends, do things you might not be comfortable with in order to please someone or a group, be skinny, wear make-up, wearing expensive clothing so that you won’t be considered a bump, etc.

Some ways Assimilation can be forced upon minorities or religious groups is by the use of laws and legal boundaries, or by the cultural beliefs and ideas already established. Forced assimilation was very common in the past with the Native Americans. The white minority would set laws and bribe the Native Americans to motivate them to live and resemble the white race. Forced Assimilation is still present today and is most comely seen in immigration. When immigrants move to America some of their culture and beliefs are illegal or viewed as unusual and they are pushed towards or forced

I never tried to fit in anymore, but instead I wanted to stand out. I learned to love myself for who I am and accept that I am different from everyone else. I am different and that’s okay, because everyone is different and unique in their own way. Everyone has a different

Experiencing peer pressure is a way to learn how to overcome pressure and to discover ourselves. We can not become perfect, but we definitely become stronger, more confident and are willing to cope with difficulties. Exposure to peer pressure also gives us an opportunity to think about other people’s outlooks towards life. It is a chance for us to choose the best from what the masses do as well as lead us to make right choices in life. To minimize the bad effects of peer pressure, parential involvement plays a very important part – it promote healthy behaviors and decrease the chance to engage in risky behavior.

Assimilation can be described as the process whereby outsiders, immigrants, or subordinate groups become indistinguishable within the dominant host society, eventually conforming to the existing cultural norms of society. Many Muslims reject any call for assimilation. For them, assimilation is tantamount to a loss of cultural, religious, ethnic identity, and an expectation of conformity to the norms of the majority.