If you were to ask me four years ago who I would imagine myself ending up like after high school, it would not be who I am today. The 13 long, and sometimes dreaded, years I experienced in school helped me discover the type of person I wanted to become. Finishing high school was the first milestone that I achieved as an adult and helped me discover my adulthood. Parker Palmer states student fears in his essay “The Courage to Teach” and Amy Tan discusses language barriers in her essay “Mother Tongue” which showed me how it was that I overcame my fear of rejection and the feeling of being ashamed about my mothers broken English. It is through their work that I can relate my personal struggles I encountered while finding my identity. Palmer’s essay demonstrates the fears students go through and the pressure students feel about school. Palmer states student fears as, “failing … not …show more content…
I would often sit alone in the loud and disturbing cafeteria because I feared rejection from other students. My junior year of high school, I decided to run for Interact Club president. I genuinely enjoyed being a part of the volunteer based club that met every Thursday. When deciding to run for president I felt as if I was bringing new ideas to the table in order to help our community better. I stood in front of what felt like a below zero, freezing meeting room, which was filled with the smell of everyone’s “nutritious” lunches, and gave a speech on why I should be voted in as the club president. Nobody knew who I was, a very shy soft-spoken girl, and by standing in front of that room, I was exposing myself to first hand, slap in the face, rejection. I didn’t win, I wasn’t even close in the running, but I gained more from that experience then I would have gained from winning. I gained confidence. I was proud of myself for facing my fear, and showing motivation to conquer
Good morning students and teachers. I honestly can't believe I've made it through my last year of schooling here at Southern Cross. Throughout my senior English studies, I have realised that individuality is something that is unfortunately lost amongst the trends and expectations of a developing society. Especially in regards to adolescents, I believe that it can be incredibly difficult to maintain a sense of independence and uniqueness in a society where everyone is expected to conform to the majority. Over the last two years, texts such as “The Kite Runner”, Shakespeare's “Othello”, Robert Frost's “Into My Own”, and the film “The Breakfast Club” have definitely inspired me to be myself and to stay true my own beliefs.
As children they will always want to be part with family, and they are accepting that their parents have the right to make choices for them to achieve their gold. In a chapter from “Aria: Memoir of Bilingual childhood,” by Richard Rodriguez, who is an internationally known scholar, the author discusses his worlds that he has to face as a student who is raise up in a Mexican immigrant family and going to America school. Rodriguez explains his life experiences being education person and ones he had at home and culture. The more successful Rodriguez became as a student, the less connected he was to his cultural heritage and family. Over all, in Rodrigues life story was connected with some of my life experience, struggle with the language and adopt
Mini Essay Draft In the essay, “The Achievement of Desire”, Richard Rodriquez’s argument that transitions are a lonely and required experience is one I can relate to but disagree with. Richard, the son of Mexican immigrants, distances himself from his family and culture in the pursuit of success. Very similarly to Richard, students and young adults choose to forge their own path and find who they are alone. Ironically, getting to the stage of independence requires help.
To My Parents I am an immigrant. The word that Donald Trump hates. The set of people that receives many blames for crimes or mischief. But after all, thats me. I am like any other person who gets blamed, I am an immigrant.
Instead, they give students false grades to pass their classes. In the essay “In Praise of the F Word," Mary Sherry argues that teaching students to have a healthy fear of failure would help them do better in school. Sherry notices that
He gave me a small smile, giving me the courage I needed to get myself to the stage. As I stood in front of the podium I looked over the crowd. Everyone’s eyes were on me. My heart started pounding in my ear, words escaping my mind. All I could do was wonder how I had ended up here.
Within the club I worked hard to solve problems faced by LGBTQ youth in my community. I helped form the school's first pride event, organized a fundraiser for LGBTQ youth homelessness, taught my peers about LGBTQ identities and orientations, and proposed and helped lead a campaign to get gender neutral bathrooms on my school’s current and future campuses. While not a end all solution, this work
Do you ever wonder what college students fears might be? Do you ever wonder what is going through their mind? In the article “The Student Fear Factor” by Rebecca Cox, it explains many different factors that a college student might be going through. The article gives many point of views from other students and what their thoughts about college was. There are some students who either are incoming high school students or are returning which can be a big fear for them the most because they don’t know what to expect from the campus vibe or even what their teacher can be like.
In his widely admired piece, Aria, author Richard Rodriguez carefully illustrates the concept of individuality being influenced by the people and community surrounding oneself, through his personal experiences as a bilingual student in America. Rodriguez shares his story in order to inform the general public and to simply raise awareness of the struggles and hardship that bilingual people endure while forced to learn a secondary language to survive in a judgemental environment. Richard Rodriguez, also known as Ricardo, states that he first started to associate Spanish with being his “home language” or “family language” even before he started to learn language itself. He writes about his happy home life, and the strong connection he has with his family when they speak Spanish. He also writes about the strange sounds of English, the language of ‘los gringos’.
I was a very outgoing child growing up, but once I reached the age of 14, I became pretty introverted. However, as soon as I walked into the room containing 40 girls my age, I decided that I was not going to be timid. Not here. Something in the atmosphere just felt so comforting, yet eerie. It was as if these girls had been my friends for years, and I knew that they were going to accept me.
Nevertheless, I believe that schools need to place more importance on the experiences and assets that every student brings with them to school because each student is unique and their socioeconomic status affects the student’s elementary journey. According to the article, “Native Language Background and Academic Achievement: Is Socioemotional Well-being a Mediator?” there is a higher probability of English language learners living in poverty, being discriminated against, and overall dealing with stressful factors outside of their school setting (Niehaus, Adelson, Sejuit & Zheng, 2017). All students bring their own “baggage” but there are some students that are affected in a more negative way and as a result, that can take a negative toll on their learning. It was brought to my attention last semester in my Anthropology course, that the lower performing schools are often low
It was inspiring to hear their stories and the barriers they overcame. At their age, I was worried about my romantic relationships and the latest pop culture. I cannot imagine having to learn a new language, being in a new country, and struggling to balance between my family’s culture and a completely different culture at school. A common theme in their stories was receiving support from school professionals. Their stories are prime examples of how school professionals can impact a student’s experience and contribute to
I was shy, distant, seemingly unable to establish friendship. I walked into the first rehearsal tasted my lack of words, a bitter, sweaty taste. Although I now know this was all in my head, I could have sworn the judgment in the room was so thick my nose somehow caught a whiff the nauseating stench. As you may have guessed things got better, thanks to being required to spend so much time will the same group of people I managed to break through my insecurities. I put aside differences and put on my big girl pants to develop as a member of society.
Talking in front of people was never “my thing” and even having conversations was hard for me. After experiencing more than one opportunity slip past me, I knew I didn’t want to be like this anymore. Even now, my past still haunts me. However, that is overshadowed by my promise to change in highschool. Primary and middle school doesn’t matter anymore; what matters is now and the future.
Even after discarding the things that set me apart, I was still made to feel as if I was an outcast. As the years passed I began to grow tired of the face I painted on daily. I missed my round glasses and being able to hide behind a book when I felt too scared to face the world. As high school came around, life brought around a new array of challenges and emotions.